Who says it’s always a man’s job to woo his lady love? Wrong! even women can impress and express their love for their partner. Love is only good when it’s mutual and reciprocated, else what’s the use if only one has to do all the lovely things. A relationship is based on trust, care and compatibility and if one is not prepared to share common feelings for each other, the love between the two will soon fade away. Often it is asked why don’t women approach men first or why don’t girl asks boys out for a dinner or date? The possible answer would be either women are shy, not ready yet or may be the they want their man to be do all the lovey-dovey things. Women psychology says they express their love distinctively, may be not much open yet in adorable ways.
Don’t let your love life slowly disappear or become feeble. Prosper your romance when it is at its peak. Never let your loved one feel like a lovelorn. Make him/her believe that affectionate bond between you two has not lost yet and it won’t ever. Keep that spark of your love story alive. Sometimes doing little things for your loved one is not only a good gesture but it also suggests that you are willing to make them happy in every moment of your life. Here are a few tips that you can practice and blossom your love life and we are sure it would work if only carried out well.
1. Hugs and Pecks
Never let a day go without snuggling and fondling. Start your morning with all the caressing and end the day with the same. They say, hugs were invented to let people know how much we love and care about them without saying a word. Feeling amorous for your loved one is not all that hard. You just need to accept them for what they are. Embrace them without any reason. You need not require any reason to love someone all your life. Before your loved one leaves for work, make sure you hug them from behind tightly. Let them know you’d love them the same way every single day of your life.
2. Make time for each other
Life is busy these days we all know that but making time from your busy schedule and spending time with them is never a bad idea. Giving your precious time to someone you love is like giving a portion of your life that will never come back. Make memories with each other. Remember all the fond days you’ve spent together and there is much more you are looking forward to. Keep reminding them that nothing has changed even after being together for so many years and you’re still willing to spend the rest of your life with the same person every day. The love you are sharing right now will be eternal.
3. Date again
Dating is the best way to know someone completely. Take him/her out for dinner, not necessarily to an expensive restaurant even a good meal at home can do wonders for you. Order or cook their favourite food, go for movie dates, roam around malls and local places with hand in hand. Though you cannot know it all about a person entirely but you still can manage to be aware of their strong likes and dislikes. Dating gives you a chance to have first-hand knowledge of your partner and their thoughts. Whereas night outs will never go out of fashion. Since nights are beautiful and romantic chances are you might get to share some intimacy with your partner. Cease the moment and make the best memory out f it.
Yeah, surprise them often. Everybody loves surprises. Be it any occasion, their birthday, your anniversary, Valentine’s Day or any other special day. Let them know, you are ready to amaze them whenever you’ll get a chance. You don’t necessarily have to buy expensive gifts for them, even simple gestures and pampering can work out in your favour. Surprising your loved one will let them know that you actually do remember the special day. Make their day worth remembering for all the good reasons.
5. Travel together
How good it would be to travel with someone you love? You’ll get more time to spend with them. One hand to hold camera to take your snaps together and the other one to hold their hand. While exploring new places, it’ll be your best chance to make memories everlasting. Spending a little amount of time and money on your loved one will not cost you much. After all, falling in love with the same person again and again actually seems romantic undoubtedly.
6. Be open minded
It’s essential to know each other well, before and after you fall in love. Though you both have the rest of your life to find out each other’s strength and weakness, it’s better to be accustomed foremost to the lifestyle of your loved one. One should be entirely comfortable, be it with their thoughts, opinions, intimacy or any other aspects of your personality. If you’ll be hesitant, you won’t be able to share your personal belief with each other. You don’t have to impose notions on your loved one but just need to accommodate yourself. After all you are going to live with them, make sure there is no place for ego, make room for love and express it well. Sometimes you’ll have to swallow your pride, you’ll have to conform yourself to their manner of living. It won’t be easy but don’t give up yet. Waking up next to someone you love every morning is one of the best feelings ever experienced. All you need is someone who won’t ever stop showing how much they love you with all your flaws and imperfections yet find you amazing lover anyway. Loving acceptance too much to ask for? Is it? Never cease to let them know how much they mean to you. You are bound to be loyal, caring and selfless to your significant other.
If you cannot imagine your life without them then you must make efforts to make them stay in your life for all worthy reasons. There are many ways to sustain love and not get bored of each other over the years. The key to successful love life is knowing each others’ flaws and not using against them. Respect for each other and being there for them when they need you the most is enough to assure them that they’re being loved unconditionally. So, engulf yourself in compassion with your loved one and don’t stop doing things you did long ago while chasing them. The best part of grooming your love life is, even in little amount of time, you give someone a world full of infinite love and empathy.